Treat Your Family Like VIPs

If you’ve ever been at an event with a high-level person like a politician, celebrity, or business executive, you’ve likely noticed the guys wearing sunglasses and sporting an earpiece, trying to look as unassuming as possible while vigilantly keeping an eye out for their client, or “principal.”.

These guys are part of a personal security detail (PSD), and their job is to protect VIPs from harm, harassment, and embarrassment.

While you probably don’t work as a personal security agent as your day job, if you’re a man with a family, you’ve still got some VIPs that you’re responsible for keeping safe: your wife and your kiddos.

The world is an unpredictable place. While you and your family are unlikely to find yourselves in the middle of a dangerous emergency, crimes and accidents happen, and random, civilian-targeted terrorist attacks are statistically on the rise.

A man’s most ancient role is to act as protector for those he loves. The skillset needed to fulfill this calling has changed from time period to time period, but the charge has remained consistent. It’s a job that need not involve paranoia, becoming overly cautious, or loading up on tons of “tactical gear.” Rather, it involves adopting a calm, but vigilant mindset– a state of relaxed alert– and carrying a few tools that are better to have on hand and not need, than need and not have.

Be Prepared.

PSD spend most of their time planning and preparing to protect their client. While you likely don’t have the time or resources to do the same sort of preparation as a professional PSD, you can apply the same ethos when taking care of your family.

Do Your Research.

Before a PSD team goes somewhere with their principal, they’ve done reconnaissance on the place to ensure there aren’t any security threats, and if there are, they do what they can to eliminate or mitigate them. You can do something similar with your family. Before you visit a location you’ve never been, read up on it. Avoid that cliff if you find out people have died jumping off a certain cliff at a watering hole. If the forecast calls for rain, tell the kids to pack ponchos. If the destination is in an entirely unsafe part of town, well, don’t go there.

Besides reconnaissance, PSD teams carry the gear they need to protect their clients. When out and about, have a first aid kit in your car to take care of minor injuries that may occur. (While you’re at it, consider adding a few other things too.).

On your person, you’ll want to keep at a minimum your cell phone (to call emergency crews when needed) and a tactical flashlight. The tactical flashlight is one of the most underrated personal defense tools. A bright flashlight can help you identify threats in dark environments and can be used to momentarily disorient attackers. In a pinch, it could also double as an improvised weapon.

Look Like a Protector.

Most ruffians are ruffians of opportunity. If they think they’ll have a chance of succeeding without suffering harm, they’ll only attack or bother a VIP. If they see a team of strong, fit, and stern-looking men near a potential target, they’re not likely to bother him. The mere presence of these bodyguards is a threat deterrent.

As the PSD for your family, make sure you have a presence that will deter would-be troublemakers. Would-be attackers will likely think twice before attacking a man who looks fit and strong because there’s a good chance they’ll suffer some damage in the attempt. If you’re not as in shape as you ‘d like to be, get going on it; being able to protect your family is some of the best motivation for getting and staying strong.

Besides being fit, just carry yourself in a confident manner. Stand up straight, look people in the eyes, and speak low, slow, and with confidence The goal is to project to others that if there’s a problem, you’re going to do something about it and not be a passive victim.

When you’re out walking on sidewalks, stand between the street and your family. It adds a layer of protection to your family.

If a Place Looks Like Trouble, Leave.

When you’re out with your family, survey the place you’re in. Don’t be paranoid, but don’t let the inconvenience of having to go to another restaurant or skip out on a baseball game early deter you from keeping your family safe, either.

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